A Retreat Built Around the Two of You
Couples Retreats with Julian Marcus
Three days. One shared intention. A guided path back to each other.
Somewhere between the calendars, the routines, and the roles you've settled into, the intimacy that first brought you together can start to feel further away. You're not broken — you're just due for space. Space to slow down, be witnessed, and reconnect with why you chose each other in the first place.
That's what a couples retreat with me is for.
That's what a couples retreat with me is for.
Who I am:
I'm Julian Marcus — a somatic sexologist and intimacy coach with 26 years in this work, a Bachelor of Science (Honours) in Therapeutic Bodywork, and certifications as a Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. I'm also the founder of the School of Relational Bodywork, where I train the next generation of practitioners in this field. Couples work has been at the heart of my practice for over two decades.
The problem with generic retreats:
Most retreats are built around a fixed curriculum, and couples are slotted in. Mine works the other way around. Before we ever set a date, we go through a real intake process — I listen to each of you individually, then guide you toward shared, embodied clarity about what you actually want from this time together. No two retreats I run look the same, because no two couples are the same.
Most retreats are built around a fixed curriculum, and couples are slotted in. Mine works the other way around. Before we ever set a date, we go through a real intake process — I listen to each of you individually, then guide you toward shared, embodied clarity about what you actually want from this time together. No two retreats I run look the same, because no two couples are the same.
What clients say:
"I have worked with Julian in various settings—private sessions, couples work, and group work... In each of these experiences, I have been profoundly impressed by Julian's depth of wisdom, intuitive mastery, and ability to flow seamlessly with the unfolding process." — Adrian F.
"My series of sessions with Julian were transformative. I now have a very passionate and fulfilling relationship with my partner thanks to the work that I did with Julian." — Alex M.
"I have worked with Julian in various settings—private sessions, couples work, and group work... In each of these experiences, I have been profoundly impressed by Julian's depth of wisdom, intuitive mastery, and ability to flow seamlessly with the unfolding process." — Adrian F.
"My series of sessions with Julian were transformative. I now have a very passionate and fulfilling relationship with my partner thanks to the work that I did with Julian." — Alex M.
What happens over 3 days:
We move through a simple, proven arc: explore, agree, practice and play, install and integrate. Day one grounds you in your shared purpose. Day two deepens the work. Day three brings it home — integrating what you've learned so it doesn't stay behind at the retreat, but travels back into your daily life together.
Depending on your goals, our time together might include the Wheel of Consent, embodied touch practices, breathwork, and guided communication exercises — always at a pace and depth you both consent to.
Investment:
We move through a simple, proven arc: explore, agree, practice and play, install and integrate. Day one grounds you in your shared purpose. Day two deepens the work. Day three brings it home — integrating what you've learned so it doesn't stay behind at the retreat, but travels back into your daily life together.
Depending on your goals, our time together might include the Wheel of Consent, embodied touch practices, breathwork, and guided communication exercises — always at a pace and depth you both consent to.
Investment:
Investment:
Retreats typically range from 3,000–5,000 euros depending on format, location, and whether accommodation is included. This isn't a casual weekend — it's a focused investment in your relationship, and I'll help you understand exactly what's included before you commit to anything.
Retreats typically range from 3,000–5,000 euros depending on format, location, and whether accommodation is included. This isn't a casual weekend — it's a focused investment in your relationship, and I'll help you understand exactly what's included before you commit to anything.
Who this is for — and who it isn't:
This retreat is for couples who are enthusiastic, aligned on wanting to explore or deepen their connection, and ready to bring their full selves into a supported process. It is not a substitute for trauma therapy, and it's not a quick fix — it's a container for pattern interruption, embodied discovery, and new ways of relating.
This retreat is for couples who are enthusiastic, aligned on wanting to explore or deepen their connection, and ready to bring their full selves into a supported process. It is not a substitute for trauma therapy, and it's not a quick fix — it's a container for pattern interruption, embodied discovery, and new ways of relating.
The invitation:
You don't need to have the language for what you want yet. You just need a willingness to explore it together. If you're both feeling that pull toward something deeper, I'd love to talk with you.
Let's explore, together, what the next step in your relationship could look like — and whether this retreat is the right path to get you there.
You don't need to have the language for what you want yet. You just need a willingness to explore it together. If you're both feeling that pull toward something deeper, I'd love to talk with you.
Let's explore, together, what the next step in your relationship could look like — and whether this retreat is the right path to get you there.
Who is holding this work?
Sex and Relationship Coach, Somatic Sexologist,
Body Poem Practitioner ™ & Relational bodyworker
Practicing in Lisbon + Algarve, Portugal.
Hi, I am Julian,
I’m a relational bodyworker and somatic coach. I support individuals, couples, and groups — online and in person — to reconnect through their bodies and relate to intimacy, sexuality, and pleasure in ways that feel more grounded, spacious, and alive.
My work centres the nervous system and the body’s own intelligence. I offer a place where you can slow down, tune in, and explore connection without needing to perform, fix yourself, or rush toward change.
This work is open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures.
Learn more about my approach →
Body Poem Practitioner ™ & Relational bodyworker
Practicing in Lisbon + Algarve, Portugal.
Hi, I am Julian,
I’m a relational bodyworker and somatic coach. I support individuals, couples, and groups — online and in person — to reconnect through their bodies and relate to intimacy, sexuality, and pleasure in ways that feel more grounded, spacious, and alive.
My work centres the nervous system and the body’s own intelligence. I offer a place where you can slow down, tune in, and explore connection without needing to perform, fix yourself, or rush toward change.
This work is open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures.
Learn more about my approach →
- Sacred Relationship with my body
My series of sessions with Julian were transformative. I now have a very passionate and fulfilling relationship with my partner thanks to the work that I did with Julian. I feel more connected with my body and as a result capable of connecting with my partner at a deeper level. Julian has a vast wealth of wisdom, knowledge, sensibility and is very dedicated to his profession. He's a professional with great heart and passion for helping his clients. I highly recommend him for anyone seeking either individual our couples workAlex MacDCoach - Multi-dimensional wide-open wonder
I enrolled in a retreat that Julian was co-facilitating, I got introduced to his work, and I got to know him in different dimensions which brought so much into my journey.
He took me on a journey of diving to explore new subjects and go deeper inside to discover more and more about myself.
I went there with curiosity and came out on the other side in wide-open wonder.
One of the things that is still with me to this day, is learning to "Feel and Follow". This represents the journey I was already in, and it expanded even further.Joao PedroEntrepreneur + Investor - Inspiring and warm guidance
I have followed several workshops and training courses run by Julian, and each time I've been stunned by his deep knowledge and eloquent guiding. He feels truly safe, trustworthy and inspiring to learn from. Also, he's great and fun companionship :)Tom KeysersSelf Empolyed - Participating in Julian's mens group was a great experience. He helped me dive into my goal and understand what I needed and wanted to work on, providing insights and support throughout the process. Honesty, clarity, insightfulness, organization, and good communication.MatteoResearcher
- Full of wisdom
Julian is hugely knowledgeable and experienced in a wide variety of topics. He was in his element answering questions from the guys in our men’s circle.
As well as a competent facilitator, teacher and bodyworker I’d also point out that working with him was a pleasure. Organised, clear and responsible.Mattia CordaMusician & Coach - Julian is extremely gifted at creating and holding a space inviting us all into to true connection and vulnerability with ourselves and others. I felt it was always a space where we can feel free from any judgement. A master on bringing into words our deepest toughs and feelings. I highly recommend working with him.Sandro AguilarEngineer + Practitioner
- I was a participant on a 5 day retreat where Julian was Co Facilitator, and my experience was overwhelmingly positive. He clearly has a depth of wisdom and experiential knowledge around the topic of sexuality and I really loved his warm, playful energy and authentic passion for what he does. He is a creative bright force, showing strong integrity and ethics, bringing his open loving heart to those who have the fortune to receive.Lawrence MichaelsSelf Employed
- Julian is an amazingly skilled bodyworker, with a lot of tools. He isn't afraid to dive deep, and his presence is so trustworthy, that it is not difficult to open up to him. He does this with empathy and professionalism. I enjoyed a 7 day private couples retreat with Julian as well as mentoring, coaching and one to one bodywork teachings, I loved all of it.Roelof Timmerman
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